Chores

Why why why? Is it too difficult for men to understand or do house work or even help their partner. Why it's been taken for guaranteed that it's her domain? Why clean and tidy place is not important to hubby/him? Is house hold chores are not consider to be work? Is managing kids, managing house juggling finances is all that just happens own it's own? Why men thinks that their partner at home baby sitting is just having baby chinos.... May be you just forgot that how well you managed the baby for 4 hours only and how you left sink full of dishes, stuff all over bench tops, toys in the whole house, poor child didn't even had one home cooked meal or even crelac.. C'mon guys if you can't appreciate your baby sitting partner who manages the house hold as well and parent and nature the kids same time then you don't deserve her. It's not hard poor partner needs your help after all it takes two to tango only..next time when you wondering what to do or having a phone chat with your work mate after during home time or just sitting in front of that so called Computer or TV spend some time with your wife doing the house chores, it can be a simple as just doing the dishes while she is organizing dinner or just setting up the table it will hardly take less than average break time between programs on TV and you will have a very happy partner...also will have love and harmony in your sweet home. May be cleaning is not your domain, perhaps you can just pick up the papers left every where or wires or toys or anything else at put them back at their place.. With your this behavior children's will get to learn without you even telling them...and if you choose not too and instead create mess your are teaching your kids how to live to mess...so you a creating a m...future. Or may be all this is just too hard and it's not your thing..and working on computer coming home late makes more sense to you then making home sweet home, may be you just want to say good bye to that...why because you don't realize this now that what effect your non-helping,non-appreciative nature, blaming and not taking responsibility nature is having at your partner... Fact is she is drowning..she is simile less and less each day...she is getting less sleep each day, she is nagging you more n more, kids are picking up and can see she does 90% of the leg work, you both hardly do things together, as she has less n less time on her hands...this goes on every day, every night, week....and years later she is so occupied in her world that she doesn't want to see you. She rather have coffee with her girl friend than you.. And at that time it's too late..so wake up now and spend quality time together which money or career can not give you. From a married women